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		<title>The power of parting</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A powerful and affirming guide to familial estrangement that encourages readers to set boundaries, heal from trauma and find freedom from abusive family members.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>&#8216;Brave and groundbreaking&#8217; Lori Gottlieb, p</b><b>sychotherapist and <i>New York Times </i>bestselling author.</b></p>
<p>A myth-shattering, inspiring book that combines research and memoir to explore the growing phenomenon of estrangement from toxic relatives &#8211; showing it not as a tragedy, but as an empowering and effective solution to the heartbreak of family abuse.</p>
<p>After decades of enduring his mother&#8217;s physical and psychological torment and years of trying in vain to set boundaries, Eamon Dolan took a radical step: he cut his mother out of his life. No more phone calls, no more visits, no more contact. Parting with his abuser gave him immediate relief and set him on a path toward freedom, confidence and joy like none he had ever felt before.</p>
<p>In <i>The Power of Parting</i>, Dolan has written the book he wishes he&#8217;d had when he was struggling to free himself from his mother&#8217;s abuse. In the process, he discovered how widespread estrangement really is. One in five UK families will be affected by estrangement, and at least 27 percent of Americans are estranged from a parent, sibling or other family member. Estrangement, Dolan realized, should be understood and embraced, not shrouded in shame.</p>
<p>Drawing on his own suffering and healing, as well as experts&#8217; advice and the testimony of other courageous survivors, Dolan first explains why abuse is much different and more prevalent than we may think, how it harms us in childhood and beyond, and why limiting or eliminating contact might be our best possible choice. He then takes us through the steps of a successful, positive estrangement: how to take crucial time for yourself; how to make sure no one can gaslight you into minimizing or forgetting; how to set rules for your abuser and &#8211; if they can&#8217;t or won&#8217;t respect your limits &#8211; how to end a toxic relationship. He also offers valuable counsel on how to ease the guilt and grief that often accompany parting, and how to break the cycle of abuse that was likely passed down to you through many generations.</p>
<p>With a convincing blend of clarity and empathy, Dolan encourages others to do what he ultimately did for himself: determine whether the people in your life treat you with the care and concern you deserve &#8211; and part ways with them if they don&#8217;t.</p>
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		<title>It starts with us</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jul 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lily and her ex-husband, Ryle, have just settled into a civil co-parenting rhythm when she suddenly bumps into her first love, Atlas, again. After nearly two years separated, she is elated that for once, time is on their side, and she immediately says yes when Atlas asks her on a date. But her excitement is quickly hampered by the knowledge that, though they are no longer married, Ryle is still very much a part of her life - and Atlas Corrigan is the one man he will hate being in his ex-wife and daughter's life. Switching between the perspectives of Lily and Atlas, 'It Starts with Us' picks up right where the epilogue for 'It Ends with Us' left off.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Before  <i>It Ends with Us</i>, it started with Atlas.</p>
<p> Multi-million copy bestselling author Colleen Hoover tells fan favourite Atlas&#8217;s side of the story and shares what comes next in this long-anticipated sequel to the #1 <i>Sunday  </i><i>Times</i>  bestseller  <i>It Ends with Us</i></b></p>
<p> Lily and her ex-husband, Ryle, have just settled into a civil co-parenting rhythm when she suddenly bumps into her first love, Atlas, again. After nearly two years separated, she is elated that for once, time is on their side, and she immediately says yes when Atlas asks her on a date.</p>
<p> But her excitement is quickly hampered by the knowledge that, though they are no longer married, Ryle is still very much a part of her life-and Atlas Corrigan is the one man he will hate being in his ex-wife and daughter&#8217;s life.</p>
<p> Switching between the perspectives of Lily and Atlas,  <i>It Starts with Us</i>  picks up right where the epilogue for the bestselling phenomenon  <i>It Ends with Us</i>  left off.  </p>
<p><b>Experience the romantic and satisfying conclusion to Colleen Hoover&#8217;s powerful global bestselling novel,  <i>It Ends with Us.</i>  </b></p>
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		<title>Finding Perfect</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jun 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Friends Daniel, Six, Holder, Sky, and Breckin are planning to celebrate the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday with a Friendsgiving dinner at Sky's parents' house. But things have been off within the tightknit group and when Daniel reaches out to Six to ask the hard questions he hasn't dared to bring up since they last spoke about their shared secret, he's dismayed to learn that it's this very secret bringing a cloud over the holiday. Suddenly, Daniel must do everything he can to find answers for the one person he loves the most in the world, but will this search only lead to despair.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>The #1  New York Times  bestselling Hopeless series continues with this heartwarming conclusion that illustrates the power of following a difficult journey to discover what happens next.</b></p>
<p>Friends Daniel, Six, Holder, Sky, and Breckin are planning to celebrate the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday with a Friendsgiving dinner at Sky&#8217;s parents&#8217; house.</p>
<p>But things have been off within the tightknit group and when Daniel reaches out to Six to ask the hard questions he hasn&#8217;t dared to bring up since they last spoke about their shared secret, he&#8217;s dismayed to learn that it&#8217;s this very secret bringing a cloud over the holiday. Suddenly, Daniel must do everything he can to find answers for the one person he loves the most in the world, but will this search only lead to despair.</p>
<p>From an author who has joined &#8220;the ranks of such luminaries as Jennifer Weiner and Jojo Moyes&#8221; (Library Journal), this moving and unputdownable novel will stay with you long after you turn the final page.</p>
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		<title>It Ends With Us</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2016 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<b>A bold, heart-wrenching story of love comingÂ at the ultimate priceÂ from the beloved No. 1Â <i>New York Times </i>and <i>Sunday TimesÂ </i>bestselling author, Colleen Hoover. Now a major motion picture starring Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni.Â </b>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>**NOW A MAJOR MOTION PICTURE STARRING BLAKE LIVELY AND JUSTIN BALDONI**</p>
<p> THE RUNAWAY GLOBAL MULTI-MILLION COPY BESTSELLING NOVEL BY COLLEEN HOOVER.  </b></p>
<p> &#8216;The reigning queen of BookTok&#8217;  <b><i>GUARDIAN </i></b><br /> &#8216;One of the most influential voices of the last decade&#8217;  <b><i>ELLE</i></b><br /> &#8216;One of the world&#8217;s most successful writers&#8217;  <b><i>DAILY MAIL</i></b><br />   <br /><b>&#8216;In the future . . . if by some miracle you ever find yourself in the position to fall in love again . . . fall in love with me.&#8217;</b></p>
<p> Lily hasn&#8217;t always had it easy, but that&#8217;s never stopped her from working hard for the life she wants. She&#8217;s come a long way from the small town where she grew up-she graduated from college, moved to Boston, and started her own business. And when she feels a spark with a gorgeous neurosurgeon named Ryle Kincaid, everything in Lily&#8217;s life seems too good to be true.</p>
<p> Ryle is assertive, stubborn, maybe even a little arrogant. He&#8217;s also sensitive, brilliant, and has a total soft spot for Lily. And the way he looks in scrubs certainly doesn&#8217;t hurt. Lily can&#8217;t get him out of her head. But Ryle&#8217;s complete aversion to relationships is disturbing. Even as Lily finds herself becoming the exception to his &#8220;no dating&#8221; rule, she can&#8217;t help but wonder what made him that way in the first place.</p>
<p> As questions about her new relationship overwhelm her, so do thoughts of Atlas Corrigan-her first love and a link to the past she left behind. He was her kindred spirit, her protector. When Atlas suddenly reappears, everything Lily has built with Ryle is threatened.</p>
<p><b>With this bold and deeply personal novel,  <i>IT ENDS WITH US  </i>is a heart-wrenching story and an unforgettable tale of love that comes at the ultimate price.  </b><br />   <br /><b>Don&#8217;t miss  <i>IT STARTS WITH US</i><i>,</i>  the  sequel to  <i>IT ENDS WITH US</i>. Available now!</b></p>
<p> Colleen Hoover,  <i>It Ends with Us</i>  Number 1  <i>Sunday Times</i>  bestseller January 2023 (UK)</p>
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