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		<title>In Search of Mr Darcy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2024 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Love in old age</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A memoir from Hunter Davies, as he falls in love again in his 80s and chronicles the first year of living with his new girlfriend in their cottage on the Isle of Wight.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Queen Victoria so liked the Isle of Wight </b>she built a royal residence here. Thousands of people got stoned here at music festivals in the late 1960s. And, in the very un-hippyish Covid summer of 2020, Hunter Davies and his girlfriend escaped locked-down North London for a week&#8217;s holiday on the Isle of Wight, fell in love with its sleepy charm &#8211; and ended up buying a Grade II-listed love nest in the elegant Victorian seaside resort of Ryde. <i>Love in Old Age </i>tells the story of their first twelve months on the island. It brings together the themes of love in old age; Covid lockdown; rural escape; the anxieties of house-buying; and the history and curiosities of England&#8217;s largest and second most populous island &#8211; all bound together by Hunter Davies&#8217;s inquisitiveness about people and places, and his irrepressible and ironic sense of humour.</p>
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		<title>The list</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Jul 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<h2>The instant <em>Sunday Times</em> bestselling debut novel</h2><p><strong>'A page-turning read about the dark side of social media'</strong> STYLIST</p><p><strong>'The Book Of The Summer' </strong><em>VOGUE</em></p><p><strong>'Topical, heartfelt, provocative' </strong>BERNARDINE EVARISTO</p>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>The instant <em>Sunday Times</em> bestselling debut novel</h2>
<p><strong>&#8216;A page-turning read about the dark side of social media&#8217;</strong> STYLIST</p>
<p><strong>&#8216;The Book Of The Summer&#8217; </strong><em>VOGUE</em></p>
<p><strong>&#8216;Topical, heartfelt, provocative&#8217; </strong>BERNARDINE EVARISTO</p>
<p><strong>&#8216;The perfect summer read ? Impossible to put down&#8217; </strong> PAULA HAWKINS</p>
<p><strong>&#8216;A page-turner that you can&#8217;t second guess&#8217; </strong><em>THE TIMES</em></p>
<p><strong>&#8216;A must-read ? fans of <em>Yellowface</em> will love <em>The List</em>&#8216;</strong><em>RED MAGAZINE</em></p>
<p>ONLINE RUMOURS. REAL LIFE TROUBLE.</p>
<p>Ola Olajide, a high-profile journalist, is marrying the love of her life in one month&#8217;s time. Young, beautiful, successful &#8211; she and her fiancé Michael seem to have it all.</p>
<p>That is, until one morning when they both wake up to the same message:</p>
<p>&#8216;Oh my god, have you seen The List?&#8217;</p>
<p>It began as a list of anonymous allegations about abusive men. Now it has been published online. Ola made her name breaking exactly this type of story. She would usually be the first to cover it, calling for the men to be fired. Except today, Michael&#8217;s name is on there.</p>
<p>With their future on the line, Ola gives Michael an ultimatum to prove his innocence by their wedding day, but will the truth of what happened change everything for both of them?</p>
<p><strong>*SOON TO BE A MAJOR TV SERIES*</strong></p>
<p><strong>&#8216;Explosive ? Every book club should read this&#8217;</strong> SYMEON BROWN</p>
<p><strong>&#8216;Brilliant ? as taut as a thriller&#8217; </strong><em>IRISH TIMES</em></p>
<p><strong>&#8216;Fun and thought-provoking in equal measure&#8217;</strong><em>HARPERS BAZAAR</em></p>
<p><strong>&#8216;An enthralling, razor-sharp, witty page-turner&#8217;</strong> BOLU BABALOLA</p>
<p><strong>&#8216;Addictive ? will set off a million debates&#8217; </strong>ANNIE LORD</p>
<p><strong>&#8216;One of the most anticipated books of the summer&#8217; </strong><em>GUARDIAN</em></p>
<p><strong>&#8216;The book that everyone&#8217;s talking about&#8217;</strong><em>INDEPENDENT</em></p>
<p><strong>READERS ARE OBSESSED WITH <em>THE LIST</em>: </strong></p>
<p>&#8216;WOW! I could not put this down. I would give it six stars if I could!&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;Gripping, with twists and turns that keep you hooked until the very end&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;SO GOOD. Perfect for book clubs, especially those who liked <em>Such a Fun Age</em>&#8216;</p>
<p>&#8216;A first class novel ? Compelling and provocative&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;This book will be talked about and find itself on every end of the year list!&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;Funny, witty, relevant and real&#8217;</p>
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		<title>Why did you stay?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jul 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Actor, writer and hopeless romantic Rebecca Humphries had often been called crazy by her boyfriend. But when paparazzi caught him kissing his 'Strictly Come Dancing' partner, she realised the only crazy thing was believing she didn't deserve more. Forced into victimhood by the story, Rebecca chose to reclaim her power, posting her thoughts on social media, including advice for other women who might be experiencing what she realised she'd managed to escape: a toxic, oppressive relationship. A flood of support poured in, but amongst the well-wishes was a simple question with an infinitely complex answer: 'If he was so bad, why did you stay?' Empowering, unflinching and full of humour, this book takes that question and owns it. Using her relationship history, coming of age stories and experiences since the Strictly scandal, Rebecca explores why good girls are drawn to darkness.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><H2> &#8216;Fierce. Game-changing. Urgently necessary. Brilliant, brilliant and did I say brilliant?&#8217; EMMA THOMPSON </H2><br /><H2> &#8216;Is it worth the hype? Absolutely&#8217; LAURA PULLMAN, <i>STYLE </i></H2></p>
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<p><H3>Actor, writer and hopeless romantic Rebecca Humphries had often been called crazy by her boyfriend. But when paparazzi caught him kissing his <i>Strictly Come Dancing</i> partner, she realised the only crazy thing was believing she didn&#8217;t deserve more.</p>
<p>A flood of support poured in on social media, but amongst the well-wishes was a simple question with an infinitely complex answer: &#8216;If he was so bad, why did you stay?&#8217;</p>
<p>Empowering, unflinching and full of humour, this book takes that question and owns it. Using her relationship history and experiences since the scandal during <i>Strictly</i>, Rebecca explores why good girls are drawn to darkness, whether pop culture glamourises toxicity, when a relationship &#8216;rough patch&#8217; becomes the start of a destructive cycle, if women are conditioned for co-dependency, and &#8211; ultimately &#8211; how to reframe disaster into something magical.</H3></p>
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<p>&#8216;Pacy, vivid, compelling and very, VERY funny&#8230; it will help so many&#8217; MARIAN KEYES<br />&#8216;A fucking classic. Required reading for all women and men&#8217; BRYONY GORDON<br />&#8216;A funny, brave and honest book that will change lives. I have not stopped talking about it&#8217; <i>THE TIMES</i><br />&#8216;So funny and heart-breaking. So stunningly written. &#8216; SUSAN WOKOMA<br />&#8216;A magical, magical book&#8217; <i>GLAMOUR</i><br />&#8216;So thoughtful and moving and funny and sad and great, I love it so, so much. I resented having to put it down&#8217; DAISY BUCHANAN<br />&#8216;Her thought-provoking story should be required reading for anyone in a relationship&#8217; <i>DAILY MIRROR</i><br />&#8216;This book isn&#8217;t an ice-cold revenge opus; it&#8217;s a diary of self-discovery, a celebration of friendship, resilience and finding one&#8217;s self-worth&#8230;is it worth the hype? Absolutely: I had to stop myself from reading it one grateful gulp&#8217; LAURA PULLMAN, <i>STYLE</i></p>
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		<title>This is not about you</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jul 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Rosemary Mac Cabe was always a serial monogamist - never happier than when she was in a relationship or, at the very least, on the way to being in one. But in her desperate search for 'the one' - from first love to first lust, through a series of disappointments and the searing sting of heartbreak - she learned that finding love might mean losing herself along the way.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>For once, these men are the objects; I am the subject. Me, me, me.</strong></p>
<p>Rosemary Mac Cabe was always a serial monogamist &#8211; never happier than when she was in a relationship or, at the very least, on the way to being in one. But in her desperate search for &#8216;the one&#8217; &#8211; from first love to first lust, through a series of disappointments and the searing sting of heartbreak &#8211; she learned that finding love might mean losing herself along the way.</p>
<p><em>This Is Not About You</em>  is a life story in a series of love stories. About Henry, with the big nose and the lovely mum, with whom sex was like having a verruca frozen off in the doctor&#8217;s surgery: &#8216;uncomfortable, but I had entered into this willingly&#8217;. About Dan, with the goatee. About Luke, who gave her a split condom. About Frank, who was married?</p>
<p>But mostly, it&#8217;s about Rosemary, figuring out just how much she was willing to sacrifice for her happy ending.</p>
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		<title>Anxiously attached</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Do you constantly talk with your friends about your partner and your relationship? If your partner doesn't answer a text quickly, do you become anxious? Or do you check up on your partner online to know about their every move? If so, you might identify with having an anxious attachment style and find yourself more prone to insecurity, jealousy, and co-dependency. But there is plenty you can do to feel stronger and more secure within yourself and improve the quality of your relationships. Expert psychotherapist and couples' counsellor Jessica Baum has over ten years' experience helping her clients discover the mutually supportive relationships they deserve. In 'Anxiously Attached', she shares the groundbreaking research and practical tools you need to understand your core attachment patterns and form healthier and more fulfilling relationships.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>&#8216;So important for anyone who is struggling with their relationships. A brilliant book&#8217; </b>Chloe Brotheridge<br /><b>&#8216;Lucid and helpful&#8217; </b><i>Sunday Times</i></p>
<p><b>If your partner doesn&#8217;t answer a text quickly, do you become anxious? Do you check up on your partner online to know their every move? Are you drawn to people who are emotionally unavailable?</b></p>
<p>If so, you might identify with having an anxious attachment style and find yourself prone to insecurity and codependency. But there is plenty you can do feel stronger in yourself and improve your relationships.</p>
<p>Psychotherapist and couples&#8217; counsellor Jessica Baum has over ten years&#8217; experience helping people build happy and healthy relationships. In this book, she shares groundbreaking research, real-life case studies and useful exercises to guide you in finding and sustaining love.</p>
<p><b>With advice on:</b><br />&#8211; Creating boundaries to protect your sense of self in relationships<br />&#8211; Communicating what you need to feel secure in a relationship<br />&#8211; Developing a strong sense of self-worth and emotional stability</p>
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		<title>Motherthing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Abby Lamb has done it. She's found the Great Good in her husband, Ralph, and together they will start a family and put all the darkness in her childhood to rest. But then the Lambs move in with Ralph's mother, Laura, whose depression has made it impossible for her to live on her own. She's venomous and cruel, especially to Abby, who has a complicated understanding of motherhood given the way her own, now-estranged, mother raised her. When Laura takes her own life, her ghost starts to haunt Abby and Ralph in very different ways. Ralph is plunged into depression, and Abby is being terrorized by a force intent on taking everything she loves away from her. With everything on the line, Abby must make the ultimate sacrifice in order to prove her adoration to Ralph and break Laura's hold on the family for good.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8216;A gruesome, blackly funny, utterly original feminist horror story&#8217; New York Times, Notable Book of the Year &#8216;A buzz-worthy and ferocious horror comedy from one of the genre&#8217;s most promising voices&#8217;BuzzfeedAbby Lamb has done it. She&#8217;s found the Great Good in her husband, Ralph, and together they will start a family and put all the darkness in her childhood to rest. But then the Lambs move in with Ralph&#8217;s mother, Laura, whose depression has made it impossible for her to live on her own. She&#8217;s venomous and cruel, especially to Abby, who has a complicated understanding of motherhood given the way her own, now-estranged, mother raised her.When Laura takes her own life, her ghost starts to haunt Abby and Ralph in very different ways. Ralph is plunged into depression, and Abby is being terrorized by a force intent on taking everything she loves away from her. With everything on the line, Abby must make the ultimate sacrifice in order to prove her adoration to Ralph and break Laura&#8217;s hold on the family for good.</p>
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		<title>Quilt on fire</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 May 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A frank, funny and inspiring memoir from Christie Watson about the search for meaning in mid-life. 'Quilt on Fire' reframes mid-life with openness and honesty, and celebrates the messy magic of being a single woman in your forties.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>A frank, funny and inspiring new memoir from the bestselling author of <i>The Language of Kindness</i> about the search for meaning in midlife</b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;Brilliant&#8230; Like having an honest conversation with a smart and funny friend&#8217; Cathy Rentzenbrink</b></p>
<p><i>Am I a terrible mother? Is the world ending? Did I turn the oven off? Did I pay the parking fine? Is my TV licence up to date? Will I go to prison? Who will take care of the children?</i></p>
<p>This is the story of Christie Watson&#8217;s journey through midlife. The joy of letting go and the pain of the morning after, the unstoppable power of female friendship and the struggle to raise teenagers as a single parent. It lays bare the exhilaration, agony, wonder and fears of being a middle-aged woman with a wild heart, a changing body and a new set of challenges. And as her world takes on a different shape, there&#8217;s something else she starts to feel: the hot flush of possibility&#8230;</p>
<p><b>&#8216;I adore Christie Watson. <i>Quilt on Fire</i> is full of her trademark candour, compassion and humour&#8217; Elizabeth Day</b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;You don&#8217;t have to be in midlife to appreciate this funny, real, empathetic memoir about the multitudes contained in every woman&#8217; <i>Red</i></b></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 May 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This unflinchingly honest memoir shines new light on the complex intersections of gender identity, sexuality, sex and queerness. Join Harry on his personal journey amongst the fraught and contradictory worlds of contemporary gay culture and re-examine the unique patterns of your own queerness along the way]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>&#8216;</b><i>On the bookshelves, there was plenty of stuff on being gay, and much needed, joyous accounts of what it is to be trans, but nothing really that encapsulates what is it to be both &#8211; to exist in the hazy terrain between</i><b>.&#8217;</b></p>
<p>After his relationship with his girlfriend of 5 years ended, Harry realised he was a single adult for the first time &#8211; not only that, but a single, transmasculine and newly out gay man.</p>
<p>Despite knowing it was the right decision, the reality of his new situation was terrifying. How could he be a gay man, when he was still learning what it was to be a man? Would the gay community embrace him or reject him? What would gay sex be like? And most importantly, would finding love again be possible?</p>
<p>In this raw, intimate and unflinchingly honest book, we follow Harry as he navigates the sometimes fraught and contradictory worlds of contemporary gay culture as a trans gay man, from Grindr, dating and gay bars, to saunas, sex and ultimately, falling in love. Harry&#8217;s brave and uplifting journey will show you there is joy in finding who you are.</p>
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