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		<title>Exactly what you mean</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[On the island of Guernsey, a teenager discovers a secret and finds his betrayal has the power to ruin lives. In London, a marriage shot with infidelity leads to a quest for revenge. And in California, as wildfires burn, a young veteran struggles with the trauma of war, seeking solace at a local ranch.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>The BBC Between the Covers Book Club Pick</b></p>
<p>&#8216;Sentence by sentence, Ben Hinshaw offers wit, sensitivity and sharp observation. Then slowly the reader sees the grand design &#8211; the intricate, braided storylines, sustained with energy and relish. It is entertaining, and something more &#8211; truly involving, like a whole novel sequence cleverly condensed&#8217; <b>Hilary Mantel</b></p>
<p>Surrounded by the dramatic beauty of Guernsey, a teenager discovers a secret and finds his betrayal has the power to ruin adult lives. In London, a marriage shot through with infidelity leads to a quest for revenge, resulting in a series of simultaneously comical and catastrophic events. And in California, as wildfires threaten landscapes and lives, a young veteran struggles with the trauma of war, seeking solace at a local ranch.</p>
<p>In this extraordinary debut, a cast of characters grapple with unexpected betrayal, the loss of innocence and the lies we tell. With sharp insight, Ben Hinshaw illuminates the unnerving nature of what it means to grow up, to be a teenager playing at adulthood and an adult playing games.</p>
<p>&#8216;Remarkable . . . virtuosity of technique accompanies keenness of insight and depth of characterisation . . . Hinshaw&#8217;s impressively accomplished debut puts him in [Tim Winton and Jennifer Egan&#8217;s] company&#8217; <i><b>Sunday Times</b></i></p>
<p>&#8216;Ben Hinshaw renders ordinary human agonies with extraordinary precision and emotional insight. He specialises in the atmosphere of human interconnection, in subtle revelations and indelible images. This book is a riveting and beautifully patterned map of the emotional archipelago of longing and learning, loving and leaving&#8217; <b>Max Porter</b></p>
<p>&#8216;A surprising and enjoyable read . . the exercise of working out how the web threads together is part of the pleasure of this book . . . this novel without guardrails stands as a brave debut&#8217; <i><b>The Times</b></i></p>
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		<title>The breakup monologues</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Mixing humour, heartache, and science, award-winning comedian, author and accidental relationship guru Rosie Wilby embarks on a quest to investigate, understand and conquer the psychology of heartbreak. Tragedy plus time equals comedy, right? In 2011, comedian Rosie Wilby was dumped by email, though she did feel a little better about it after correcting her ex's spelling and punctuation. Obsessing about breakups ever since, she embarked on a quest to investigate, understand and conquer the psychology of heartbreak. That quest proved to be a creatively fertile one, resulting in Rosie's acclaimed podcast 'The Breakup Monologues'. This book is a love letter to her breakups, a celebration of what they have taught her peppered with anecdotes from friends and interviews with relationship therapists and sociologists about separating in the modern age of ghosting, breadcrumbing, and conscious uncoupling.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>&#8216;Piercingly honest? witty? wonderful&#8217; &#8211; <i>The Observer</i></b><b>&#8216;</b>My favourite way to learn is when a<b> funny, clever, honest </b>person is teaching me &#8211; that&#8217;s why <b>I love Rosie Wilby!&#8217; &#8211; Sara Pascoe</b><b>&#8216;Funny, sweet, entertaining, insightful, life-affirming&#8230;&#8217; &#8211; Viv Groskop</b><b>&#8216;Hilarious, honest and brilliant&#8217; &#8211; Helen Thorne</b>&#8216;Rosie Wilby <b>unearths the hope</b> <b>and hilarity </b>that can come from<b> heartbreak&#8217; &#8211; Abigail Tarttelin</b>In 2011, comedian and podcaster Rosie Wilby was dumped by email&#8230; though she did feel a little better about it after correcting her ex&#8217;s spelling and punctuation. Obsessing about breakups ever since, she embarked on a quest to investigate, understand and conquer the psychology of heartbreak. This book is a love letter to her breakups, a celebration of what they have taught her peppered with anecdotes from illustrious friends and interviews with relationship therapists, scientists and sociologists about separating in the modern age of ghosting, breadcrumbing and conscious uncoupling.Mixing humour, memoir and science, she attempts to assimilate their advice and ideas in order to not break up with Girlfriend, her partner of nearly three years. Will this self-confessed serial monogamist, and breakup addict, finally settle down?</p>
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		<title>Unfinished business</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This volume focuses on an ordinary suburban office worker, fundamentally weak but always keeping his eyes fixed on some horizon where a heightened, romantic, better world must surely exist. Faced with the regular stuff of life - work, aspiration, marriage, age, divorce, bereavement - his ordinary plight is sharpened, becoming increasingly urgent. Having lived in a modern condition, confusing pleasure with happiness, wanting the dream to deliver, what do you do when you notice the shadows begin to lengthen on the lawn?]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>UNFINISHED BUSINESS focuses on an ordinary suburban office worker, fundamentally weak but always keeping his eyes fixed on some horizon where a heightened, romantic, better world must surely exist.  Faced with the regular stuff of life &#8211; work, aspiration, marriage, age, divorce, bereavement &#8211; his ordinary plight is sharpened, becoming increasingly urgent. Having lived in a modern condition, confusing pleasure with happiness, wanting the dream to deliver, what do you do when you notice the shadows begin to lengthen on the lawn?</p>
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		<title>The Bridge</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Heartbreak can manifest itself as depression, anxiety, self-sabotage, an inability to feel emotions, make connections or live life on your own terms. Donna Lancaster's practical 9-step programme will empower you with the tools and support you need to gain clarity, identify what has hurt you, and learn how to release the pain, fear and anger keeping you trapped.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>&#8216;Powerful, brilliant and deeply healing&#8217; Fearne Cotton</b><br /><b><br />&#8216;God in her wisdom divined this book&#8217; Thandiwe Newton<br /></b>________________________________</p>
<p>Every single one of us is living with the aftershocks of heartbreak. Whether it&#8217;s the sting of not fitting in at school or the pain of witnessing our parents&#8217; divorce, the end of our own marriage or the death of a loved one, to be human is to bear the wounds of all our losses and setbacks.</p>
<p>Heartbreak can manifest itself as depression, anxiety, self-sabotage, an inability to feel emotions, make connections, or live life on your own terms. Donna&#8217;s practical 9-step programme will empower you with the tools and support you need to gain clarity, identify what has hurt you, and learn how to release the pain, fear and anger keeping you trapped.</p>
<p>Donna will teach you how to care for yourself with love, give you the courage to really feel your feelings, step into your authentic self and move towards whole-hearted living.</p>
<p>This book is for anyone who is experiencing pain, heartbreak, sadness or overwhelming emotion, and can&#8217;t seem to get beyond it. All of us want to be able to live with more compassion, <i>The Bridge </i>will help us get there.<br />________________________________</p>
<p><b>&#8216;Donna weaves in genuinely practical tools with heart-warming rituals and hard-hitting, life-affirming quotes.  I wholeheartedly recommend this book to anyone who wants to do the work&#8217; Melissa Hemsley</b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;<i>The Bridge</i> is a radical healing journey, truly transformational&#8217; Brigid Moss</b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;Give yourself the best gift ever, buy this book and go on the journey with Donna, you won&#8217;t regret it&#8217; Jill Halfpenny</b></p>
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		<title>Exactly What You Mean</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Surrounded by the dramatic beauty of Guernsey, a teenager discovers a secret and finds his betrayal has the power to ruin adult lives. In London, a marriage shot through with infidelity leads to a quest for revenge, resulting in a series of simultaneously comical and catastrophic events. And in California, as wildfires threaten landscapes and lives, a young veteran struggles with the trauma of war, seeking solace at a local ranch.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>The BBC <i>Between the Covers </i>Book Club Pick </b><br /><b><br />&#8216;Sentence by sentence, Ben Hinshaw offers wit, sensitivity and sharp observation. Then slowly the reader sees the grand design &#8211; the intricate, braided storylines, sustained with energy and relish. It is entertaining, and something more &#8211; truly involving, like a whole novel sequence cleverly condensed&#8217; </b>Hilary Mantel</p>
<p>Surrounded by the dramatic beauty of Guernsey, a teenager discovers a secret and finds his betrayal has the power to ruin adult lives. In London, a marriage shot through with infidelity leads to a quest for revenge, resulting in a series of simultaneously comical and catastrophic events. And in California, as wildfires threaten landscapes and lives, a young veteran struggles with the trauma of war, seeking solace at a local ranch.</p>
<p>In this extraordinary debut, a cast of characters grapple with unexpected betrayal, the loss of innocence and the lies we tell. With sharp insight, Ben Hinshaw illuminates the unnerving nature of what it means to grow up, to be a teenager playing at adulthood and an adult playing games.</p>
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		<title>How to Heal a Broken Heart</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA['It wasn't a conscious uncoupling. I had my heart ripped out and stamped on.'When Rosie Green's husband walked out after 26 years together, he declined to leave a forwarding address. Instead, he left a devastated woman who turned into someone she barely recognized: unable to eat or sleep, and so desperate to keep her family together she'd sacrifice her sense of self - and her dignity. She thought she'd never get over it. But she did. And so can you. This is the frank, uplifting and insightful book Rosie wished she could have found when her whole world fell apart.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>&#8216;The poster girl for divorce.&#8217; <i>The Times</i></b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;If you&#8217;ve ever had your heart broken (and who hasn&#8217;t) Rosie Green&#8217;s <i>How to Heal a Broken Heart</i> is your best friend. Honest, comforting and hopeful.&#8217; MARIAN KEYES</b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;I love Rosie Green&#8217;s writing.&#8217; ELIZABETH DAY</b><br /><b><br />&#8216;Brilliant. One of the few books that I&#8217;ve found that really describes what a broken heart feels like. It touched so many nerves.&#8217; VANESSA FELTZ</b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;It reduced me to tears.&#8217; EMMA BARNETT, <i>Woman&#8217;s Hour</i>, BBC Radio 4</p>
<p><i>&#8216;It wasn&#8217;t a conscious uncoupling.  I had my heart ripped out and stamped on.&#8217;</i></b></p>
<p>When Rosie Green&#8217;s husband walked out after 26 years together, he declined to leave a forwarding address. Instead, he left a devastated woman who turned into someone she barely recognised: unable to eat or sleep, and so desperate to keep her family together she&#8217;d sacrifice her sense of self &#8211; and her dignity.</p>
<p>She thought she&#8217;d never get over it. But she did. And so can you. </p>
<p>This is the frank, uplifting and insightful book Rosie wished she could have found when her whole world fell apart. </p>
<p>Here&#8217;s your guide to getting through it &#8211; with advice from the experts, with the help of your friends, with a deliciously dark sense of humour and, for Rosie, with some highly inappropriate sex advice from her pre-teen daughter. Let her brilliantly honest handbook show how you can heal faster, understand yourself better and move on.</p>
<p><i>How to Heal a Broken Heart</i> doesn&#8217;t sugarcoat it &#8211; heartbreak brings you to your knees. But, sometimes, it also gives you a necessary shove towards a happier, more fulfilled life than you ever dreamed was possible.</p>
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		<title>How to Leave Your Psychopath</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Feb 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Recognize the markers of a toxic relationship with this pragmatic and darkly funny guide from comedian Maddy Anholt.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>&#8216;Will help so many learn to recognize what an abusive relationship is&#8217; &#8211; <i>Mel B</i></b><br /><b>&#8216;I read it all in one sitting, it is brilliant! This book is so relatable and Maddy&#8217;s funny and engaging approach starts serious conversations&#8217; &#8211; <i>Teresa Parker, </i><i>Women&#8217;s Aid</i></b></p>
<p><i>Are you forever finding yourself in the stranglehold of controlling companions? Well, fear not, because once you&#8217;ve finished reading this book, you&#8217;ll be able to wave ta-ta to unhappy and unhealthy relationships for good. Consider me the Psycho Sprucer, Bad Boy Buster, the Hot Mess Assessor &#8211; ready to leave your love life sparkling.</i></p>
<p><i>How to Leave Your Psychopath</i> is a candid account of the complex, subtle nature of coercive control and abusive relationships from comedian Maddy Anholt, who &#8211; until her eyes were opened &#8211; had spent her entire dating life trapped in them.</p>
<p>Relatable and accessible, the book covers all the common techniques these toxic twerps use to exert control, including gaslighting, breadcrumbing and negging. This book is the ultimate handbook to help you see and respond to red flags, recognize controlling traits, and learn to give any prospective date a score on Maddy&#8217;s unique &#8216;Psychometer&#8217;, from super-empath to psychopath. Vitally, by interweaving psychological insight and autobiographical anecdotes, Maddy shows you the road to self-discovery, leading you on the path to safer dating and a healthier, more joyful life.</p>
<p>Funny, judgement-free and full of brilliant first-hand advice, this empowering guide will help anyone ditch their controlling partner to find freedom and happiness.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wonderfully warm and astonishingly acerbic, Jilly's observations from her days as a much-loved newspaper columnist cover everything on sex, socialising and survival - from marriage and friendship; the minutiae of family life and the tedium of going to visit people for the weekend; to the stress of hosting dinner parties and the descent of middle age. Entertaining and full of heart, join Jilly to explore the very highs and lows of everyday life.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8216;No one else can make me laugh and cry quite like Jilly Cooper.&#8217; <b>Gill Sims</b><br />&#8216;Jilly Cooper&#8217;s non-fiction is just as entertaining as her novels.&#8217; <b>Pandora Sykes</b><br /><b>____________________</b><br /><b><br />&#8216;<i>One truth I have learnt, as middle age enmeshes me like Virginia creeper, is that I shall never change-because my capacity for self-improvement is absolutely nil</i>.&#8217;</b></p>
<p>Jilly Cooper&#8217;s observations from her days as a much-loved newspaper columnist cover everything to do with sex, socialising and survival &#8211; from marriage, friendship and the minutiae of family life, to the tedium of going to visit people for the weekend, the stress of hosting dinner parties and the descent of middle age. </p>
<p>Entertaining and full of heart, this classic collection of journalism from the legendary author explores the highs and lows of everyday life with wit, wisdom and warmth.</p>
<p><b>Praise for Jilly Cooper:</b><br />&#8216;Joyful and mischievous&#8217; <b>Jojo Moyes</b><br />&#8216;Fun, sexy and unputdownable&#8217; <b>Marian Keyes</b><br />&#8216;Flawlessly entertaining&#8217; <b>Helen Fielding</b></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2021 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Shaun Deeney has just embarked on a new life in France. His two daughters are grown-up, he has survived a divorce and he is hoping he might find love one last time. But the sudden death of his father changes everything. With his mother in a care home, Shaun knows he has a choice to make: does he leave her there, or give up his new-found freedom to care for her in the home she once shared with his father? 'Love &#038; Care' charts their first year living together; the changing seasons framing their relationship. Will he cope and prove the doubters wrong? What will it mean for his chances of finding love? Shaun's search for love becomes entwined with reflections on his parents' own marriage.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b><i>***</i></b><br /><b><i><br />&#8216;An honest and thoughtful memoir. Moving but, ultimately, full of hope. Beautiful.&#8217;  </i>KATE MOSSE</b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;Superb. <i>Love &#038; Care</i> is a book about the unbreakable bonds of family, the cruelty of passing time and a love that never dies.&#8217; TONY PARSONS</b><b><br /><i><br />&#8216;A beautiful, intimate story of love and understanding &#8211; candid and funny. This is a lyrical memoir of hope and forgiveness.&#8217; </i> RAYNOR WINN,</b> author of <i>The Salt Path </i></p>
<p><b>&#8216;He&#8217;s in hospital again . . . and he&#8217;s not eating. Perhaps you should think about coming back to the UK,&#8217; Brenda said. &#8216;I don&#8217;t think your dad will be going home again.&#8217; </b></p>
<p>Shaun&#8217;s mother is in a care home with Parkinson&#8217;s Dementia and now his father is dying. He should go back. </p>
<p>And yet this was supposed to be his time. Shaun has relocated to a new country to make a fresh start. His two daughters are grown-up. He has moved on from the divorce. He is single and he is free and still hoping to find love again. </p>
<p>Will this mean giving up on his own life? </p>
<p><b>&#8216;<i>A heart-warming, heart-wrenching, and beautifully humane account of loving and caring.</i>&#8216; </b><b>NICCI GERRARD,</b> novelist and author of <i>What Dementia Teaches Us About Love</i></p>
<p><b><i>&#8216;An insightful tale of care . . . this book needed to be written.&#8217; </i>JO GOOD, BBC Radio London</b></p>
<p><b><i>&#8216;A vital subject, a really strong voice and, hurrah, humour makes this absorbing reading.&#8217;  </i>CAROLINE RAPHAEL, Radio 4&#8217;s Book at Bedtime<br /></b><br />&#8216;<b><i>An eye-opening &#8211; and at times jaw dropping &#8211; account that will make you weep with its tenderness and compassion . . . A highly readable tale of redemption and a celebration of love&#8217;s many hues.</i></b>&#8216; <b>PAUL BLEZARD,</b> <b>Love Reading </b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;<i>Moving&#8217; DAILY MAIL</i></b></p>
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