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		<title>Wild card</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Oct 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A practical, modern and inspirational illustrated guide to tarot, its stories, meanings and what the cards can teach us about ourselves.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Discover the tarot with <i>Wild Card</i>, a friendly, funny and straightforward guide to the seventy-eight cards, their stories and meanings.</b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;A beautiful, playful, intriguing book.&#8217; &#8211; Nina Stibbe, author of <i>Reasons to Be Cheerful.</i></b></p>
<p>Every time you draw a card, you open up possibilities. What will appear and what will you see? What lessons could the cards offer up? What aspects of yourself might they reveal?</p>
<p>At its heart, the tarot is a storytelling device, a deck of symbols and narratives that can spark conversations, inspire ideas, and reveal new perspectives. And you don&#8217;t need to be psychic to use it: it is a practice that is open to everyone. In this beautifully illustrated guide, tarot readers Jen Cownie and Fiona Lensvelt introduce each of the cards, drawing on literature, pop culture, and their own experiences, and encourage you to add your voice to this centuries-old tradition.</p>
<p><b>Whether you are learning to read for yourself and others, refreshing your knowledge, or just curious, <i>Wild Card</i> will show you how the tarot can add a little bit of magic to your life.</b></p>
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		<title>Doppelganger</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When Naomi Klein discovered that a woman who shared her first name, but had radically different, harmful views, was getting chronically mistaken for her, it seemed too ridiculous to take seriously. Then suddenly it wasn't. She started to find herself grappling with a distorted sense of reality, becoming obsessed with reading the threats on social media, the endlessly scrolling insults from the followers of her doppelganger. Why had her shadowy other gone down such an extreme path? Why was identity - all we have to meet the world - so unstable? To find out, Klein decided to follow her double into a bizarre, uncanny mirror world: one of conspiracy theories, anti-vaxxers and demagogue hucksters, where soft-focus wellness influencers make common cause with fire-breathing far right propagandists (all in the name of protecting 'the children').]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>*THE INSTANT <i>NEW YORK TIMES</i> BESTSELLER*<br />*A BOOK OF THE YEAR FOR <i>THE TIMES</i>, <i>NEW YORK TIMES</i>, <i>GUARDIAN</i>, <i>OBSERVER, </i>AND <i>PROSPECT</i>*</p>
<p>&#8216;If I had to name a single book that makes sense of these last few dark years, it would be this one&#8217; <i>New York Times</i></b></p>
<p><b>&#8216;A deeply compelling read ? urgent and necessary&#8217;<i> Evening Standard</i></b><br /><b>Naomi Klein, author of era-defining bestsellers, <i>The Shock Doctrine, This Changes Everything </i>and <i>No Logo, </i>is back with her most compulsive and personal book yet: a revelatory journey into the mirror world of our polarised age</b></p>
<p>When Naomi Klein discovered that a woman who shared her first name, but had radically different, harmful views, was getting chronically mistaken for her, it seemed too ridiculous to take seriously. Then suddenly it wasn&#8217;t. She started to find herself grappling with a distorted sense of reality, becoming obsessed with reading the threats on social media, the endlessly scrolling insults from the followers of her doppelganger. Why had her shadowy other gone down such an extreme path? Why was identity &#8211; all we have to meet the world &#8211; so unstable?</p>
<p>To find out, Klein decided to follow her double into a bizarre, uncanny mirror world: one of conspiracy theories, anti-vaxxers and demagogue hucksters, where soft-focus wellness influencers make common cause with fire-breathing far right propagandists (all in the name of protecting &#8216;the children&#8217;). In doing so, she lifts the lid on our own culture during this surreal moment in history, as we turn ourselves into polished virtual brands, publicly shame our enemies, watch as deep fakes proliferate and whole nations flip from democracy to something far more sinister.</p>
<p>This is a book for our age and for all of us; a deadly serious dark comedy which invites us to view our reflections in the looking glass. It&#8217;s for anyone who has lost hours down an internet rabbit hole, who wonders why our politics has become so fatally warped, and who wants a way out of our collective vertigo and back to fighting for what really matters.</p>
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		<title>Sensitive</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Mar 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Have you ever been told you're too sensitive? Welcome to the club. Nearly 1 in 3 people have the genes to be more sensitive than others. But what if we said it doesn't have to be the insult it's always been framed as? Through fascinating research, expert storytelling and practical insight, this book will teach you how to unlock the potential in this undervalued strength and leverage it in your relationships, your work and your life. Shattering the myth that being sensitive is a weakness, 'Sensitive' will change - once and for all - how the world sees sensitive people, and how they see themselves.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>&#8216;A natural follow up to Susan Cain&#8217;s Quiet&#8217;</b> <i>&#8211; The Sunday Times Style</i></p>
<p>&#8216;The authors paint an <b>illuminating portrait</b> of highly sensitive people&#8217; <i>&#8211; Financial Times</i></p>
<p><b><i>*****</i></b></p>
<p><b> Have you ever been told you&#8217;re too sensitive? Welcome to the club.</b></p>
<p>Nearly 1 in 3 people have the genes to be more sensitive than others. But what if we said it doesn&#8217;t have to be the insult it&#8217;s always been framed as?</p>
<p>Highly sensitive people:</p>
<p> · Have a heightened sense of empathy<br /> · Tune into subtle details and make connections that others miss<br /> · Are often wonderfully creative</p>
<p>Through fascinating research, expert storytelling and practical insight, this book will teach you how to unlock the potential in this undervalued strength and leverage it in your relationships, your work and your life.</p>
<p>Shattering the myth that being sensitive is a weakness, Sensitive will change &#8211; once and for all &#8211; how the world sees sensitive people, and how they see themselves.  </p>
<p><b><i>*****</i></b></p>
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		<title>Get it done</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The perfect guide to mastering your motivations and achieving your ambitions, from renowned psychologist and behavioural scientist Ayelet Fishbach, PhD.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>&#8216;I don&#8217;t know anyone who knows more than Ayelet Fishbach about the psychology of goals . . . I love this book and know you will too&#8217; &#8211; Angela Duckworth, author of <i>Grit</i></b></p>
<p>A great deal of ink has been spilled on the subject of motivating and influencing others, but what happens when the person you most want to influence is you? Setting and achieving goals for yourself &#8211; at work, at home, and in relationships &#8211; is harder than it seems. Knowing where to start, and carrying on in the face of roadblocks and distractions, can easily become overwhelming. When you face more responsibilities, needs and desires than you can keep track of, how do you prioritize?</p>
<p>In <i>Get it Done</i>, psychologist and behavioural scientist Ayelet Fishbach presents a new theoretical framework for self-motivated action, explaining how to:</p>
<p>&#8211; Identify the right goals<br />&#8211; Attack the &#8216;middle problem&#8217;<br />&#8211; Battle temptations<br />&#8211; Use the help of others around you<br />&#8211; And so much more . . .</p>
<p>With fascinating research from the field of motivation science and compelling stories of people who learned to motivate themselves, <i>Get it Done</i> illuminates invaluable strategies for pulling yourself in whatever direction you want to go &#8211; so you can achieve your goals while staying healthy, clearheaded and happy.</p>
<p><b>&#8216;A compelling and revelatory new framework for setting and achieving your goals, from a psychologist on the cutting edge of motivational science&#8217; &#8211; Carol Dweck, PhD, author of <i>Mindset</i></b></p>
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		<title>Motherland</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Mar 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[What does it mean to be a parent in a space where you are the minority? Meandering through a supermarket highway of camembert and baguettes, Priya Joi heard a heart-stopping confession about her daughter's identity that made her entire being implode like a dying star. Confronted with the fact that maybe her daughter was not entirely at peace with her appearance, she suddenly had to grapple not only with motherhood but also how to talk to her kid about race and identity. Joi writes powerfully about how her personal and cultural identity intersect with motherhood - and how they inform her identity as a (British-Indian) parent and step-parent. The book is her powerful, witty response to the absence of an inclusive, accessible blueprint for navigating life as a multi-faceted mother.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>&#8216;This is the kind of book I wish I had access to as a young mum&#8217; Nadiya Hussain</b><br />___________</p>
<p>What does it mean to be a parent in a space where you are the minority?</p>
<p>Meandering through a supermarket highway of camembert and baguettes, Priya Joi heard a heart-stopping confession about her daughter&#8217;s identity that made her entire being implode like a dying star. Confronted with the fact that maybe her daughter was not entirely at peace with her appearance, she suddenly had to grapple not only with motherhood but also <i>how </i>to talk to her kid about race and identity.</p>
<p>In <i>M(other)land, </i>Joi writes powerfully about how her personal and cultural identity intersect with motherhood &#8211; and how they inform her identity as a (British-Indian) parent and step-parent. The book is her powerful, witty response to the absence of an inclusive, accessible blueprint for navigating life as a multi-faceted mother. By sharing her own story, she writes into this silence and provides a voice of understanding for all those who fall outside of dominant presentations of &#8216;parenthood&#8217; and have never seen themselves or their experiences represented.</p>
<p><i>M(other)land </i>is a crucial book for anyone trying to navigate the complexities of race and motherhood, who has ever felt &#8216;other&#8217;, who has struggled to reconcile their past or cultural upbringing with how they raise the next generation. Joi passes on hard-won knowledge that has taken years to learn: the complexity of your identity is just who you are &#8211; it&#8217;s okay to be both, neither, or multiple things at once &#8211; instead of fighting it, feeling &#8216;neither&#8217; is a strength and a state of mind that you can revel in.<br />___________</p>
<p><b>&#8216;A beautifully written memoir and a thought-provoking critical intervention into race and motherhood &#8211; we can all learn something from this brilliant must-read book&#8217; Julia Samuel, leading British psychotherapist and bestselling author</b></p>
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		<title>What women want</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[After 30 years of research, Sigmund Freud still felt the great unanswered question was: 'What does a woman want?' 15 years into her own journey as a psychotherapist, Maxine Chung believes she holds the answer. Through the profound and moving stories of seven very different women, Maxine sheds light on our most fundamental needs and desires. From a young bride-to-be struggling to accept her sexuality, to a mother grappling with questions of identity and belonging, and a woman learning to heal after years of trauma, 'What Women Want' is an electrifying and deeply intimate examination into the inner lives of women.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8216;A rich and intimate examination of female desire, Maxine&#8217;s book is full of wisdom and insight. I cannot recommend it enough&#8217; <b>Julia Samuel</b></p>
<p><b>After thirty years of research, Sigmund Freud still felt the great unanswered question was: &#8216;What does a woman want?&#8217; Fifteen years into her own journey as a psychotherapist, Maxine Mei-Fung Chung believes her collaboration with her patients holds the answers. </b></p>
<p>Through the profound and moving stories of seven very different women, Maxine Mei-Fung Chung sheds light on our most fundamental needs and desires. From a young bride-to-be struggling to accept her sexuality, to a mother grappling with questions of identity and belonging, and a woman learning to heal after years of trauma, <i>What Women Want</i> is an electrifying and deeply intimate exploration into the inner lives of women.</p>
<p>Based on hours of conversations between Maxine and her patients, this book lays bare our fears, hopes, secrets and capacity for healing. With great empathy and precision, <i>What Women Want</i> presents a fearless look into the depths of who we are, so that we can better understand each other and ourselves.</p>
<p>To desire is an action. This extraordinary book liberates and empowers us to claim what we truly want.</p>
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		<title>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Meet Lori Gottlieb, an insightful and compassionate therapist whose clients present with all kinds of problems. Over the course of a year, they all make progress. But Gottlieb is not just a therapist - she's also a patient who's on a journey of her own. Interspersed with the stories of her clients are her own therapy sessions, as she goes in search of the hidden roots of a devastating and life-changing event.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>A <em>TIME </em>magazine Must-Read Book of the Year</strong></p>
<p><strong>Ever wonder what your therapist is thinking? Now you can find out, as therapist and <em>New York Times</em> bestselling author Lori Gottlieb takes us behind the scenes of her practice &#8211; where her patients are looking for answers (and so is she).</strong></p>
<p>When a personal crisis causes her world to come crashing down, Lori Gottlieb &#8211; an experienced therapist with a thriving practice in Los Angeles &#8211; is suddenly adrift. Enter Wendell, himself a veteran therapist with an unconventional style, whose sessions with Gottlieb will prove transformative for her.</p>
<p>As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her own patients&#8217; lives &#8211; a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen who feels she has nothing to live for, and a self-destructive twenty-something who can&#8217;t stop hooking up with the wrong guys &#8211; she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very questions she is bringing to Wendell.</p>
<p>Taking place over one year, and beginning with the devastating event that lands her in Wendell&#8217;s office, <em>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone</em> offers a rare and candid insight into a profession that is conventionally bound with rules and secrecy. Told with charm and compassion, vulnerability and humour, it&#8217;s also the story of an incredible relationship between two therapists, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious inner lives, as well as our power to transform them.</p>
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		<title>The Status Game</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>'Will Storr is one of our best journalists of ideas ? <em>The Status Gam</em>e might be his best yet' </strong>James Marriott, Books of the Year, <em>The Times</em></p>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>&#8216;Will Storr is one of our best journalists of ideas ? <em>The Status Gam</em>e might be his best yet&#8217; </strong>James Marriott, Books of the Year, <em>The Times</em></p>
<p><strong>What drives our political and moral beliefs?</strong></p>
<p><strong>What shapes our bitterest conflicts and wildest dreams?</strong></p>
<p><strong>What makes you,  <em>you</em>?</strong></p>
<p>Across the world, from Papua New Guinea to Tokyo and Manhattan, humans compete for status. Through games of dominance, virtue and success, it&#8217;s an obsession that has driven the best and worst of us: the Renaissance and the Industrial Revolution as well as spree killers and tyrants at the gates of Europe. But what makes status an all-consuming prize? And how can we wield our desire for it to improve our relationships, win social media battles and be the best in the workplace?</p>
<p>A breathtaking rethink of human psychology, <em>The Status Game</em> will change how you see others &#8211; and how you see yourself.</p>
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		<title>Rapunzella, Or, Don&#8217;t Touch My Hair</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2022 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[      <b>A genre-bending YA that weaves together inner-city life and a      wildly dangerous fairytale universe.</b>      <i>Rapunzella is imprisoned in an enchanted forest made of her own      Afro and the might of the evil King Charming seems unstoppable.      But is it? Can Rapunzella use her power to change the future?</i>]]></description>
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<h3><strong>A genre-bending YA that weaves together inner-city life      and a wildly dangerous fairytale universe.</strong></h3>
<p><em>Rapunzella is imprisoned in an enchanted forest made of her      own Afro and the might of the evil King Charming seems unstoppable.      But is it? </em><em>Can Rapunzella use her power to change the      future?</em></p>
<p>You&#8217;re fifteen, you spend your time at school and at Val&#8217;s hair      salon with Baker, Val&#8217;s son, who has eyes that are like falling      off a cliff into space. The salon is a space of safety, but also      of possibility and dreams&#8230; Dreams of hair so rich and alive that      it grow upwards and outwards into a wild landscape, becomes trees      and leaves, and houses birds and butterflies and all the secret      creatures that belong in such a forest.</p>
<p>Is there a future where such possibility and power is more than      just a dream?</p>
<p>      <b>Ella McLeod&#8217;s debut merges poetry and prose in a stunningly lyrical,      heart-piercingly honest exploration of a teenager coming into      her power as a young woman. </b>      </p>
<li><b>A bold new voice in YA fiction, Ella McLeod is a spoken word      poet and actor.
<li><strong>Perfect for fans of Elizabeth Acevedo, Dean Atta and      Kalynn Bayron.</li>
<li><strong>A celebration of Black hair and the power of coming into      your identity.<br />
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