I’m Fine (But Not Really)

Peter Meades

£16.99

Modern men are under pressure to be strong, silent and always in control. But what happens when this isn’t true? Drawing on over twenty-five years of clinical experience, Dr Peter Meades confronts the crisis of men’s mental health with unflinching honesty and deep compassion, bringing together real-life stories and straightforward tools to help men make sense of stress, anger and shame. This groundbreaking guide reveals why men delay seeking help until breaking point, and offers a lifeline: therapy without going to therapy. Through ten transformative insights – covering everything from emotional resilience and trauma recovery to relationship skills and the impact of expectations around ‘masculinity’ – it guides you in mapping your own journey. You’ll find practical exercises designed to help you spot patterns, build self-awareness and take achievable steps toward change.

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Publish Date: 06/08/2026

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'Simple, honest advice – a real toolkit for life' – Jamie Oliver

'The book women wish men would read' – Dawn O'Porter


'If you've ever said “I'm fine” when you're not, this is for you' – Rick Stein

Modern men are under pressure to be strong, silent and always in control. But what happens when this isn't true? Drawing on over twenty-five years of clinical experience, Dr Peter Meades confronts the crisis of men's mental health with unflinching honesty and deep compassion, bringing together real-life stories and straightforward tools to help men make sense of stress, anger and shame.

This groundbreaking guide reveals why men delay seeking help until breaking point, and offers a lifeline: therapy without going to therapy. Through ten transformative insights – covering everything from emotional resilience and trauma recovery to relationship skills and the impact of expectations around 'masculinity' – it guides you in mapping your own journey. You'll find practical exercises designed to help you spot patterns, build self-awareness and take achievable steps toward change.

Written for men who avoid therapy or struggle to talk, this is a resource you can use privately and at your own pace. Discover how to reconnect with your body, manage stress and redefine what strength means – without jargon or judgement. Real change starts with one honest look in the mirror.

Additional information

Weight 400 g
Dimensions 232 × 152 × 26 mm
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Publisher

Imprint

Cover

Paperback

Pages

320

Language

English

Edition
Dewey

155.332 (edition:23)

Readership

General – Trade / Code: K